Possibility + Permission ⇧ Pleasure

Grab a friend. Grab a lover. Grab a loverfriend.

Take a break from Either/Or and explore the 𝘗𝘰𝘴𝘴𝘪𝘣𝘪𝘭𝘪𝘵𝘺 of floating freely in an infinite sea of Gender and Sexuality.

𝗧𝗟;𝗗𝗥? 𝗗𝗼𝗻’𝘁 𝗱𝗼 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁! 𝗬𝗼𝘂’𝗹𝗹 𝗯𝗲 𝗰𝗼𝗻𝗳𝘂𝘀𝗲𝗱 𝗮𝘁 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗻𝘁. 𝗢𝗸𝗮𝘆?

What if gender was a made up thing, a social construct? Do your parts really dictate your gender? If not, what does? Is it true there are exactly two totally inflexible genders? What about your sexuality? Are the only choices straight, gay, bi? What if being snuggled up with someone who has the same parts as you didn’t mean questioning or defending a sexual orientation? What if you experienced gender and sexuality as something more fluid, even a wee bit more flexible? What might that do for you and your relationships?

There is nothing wrong, nothing at all, with feeling, identifying, and presenting in the world from within culture’s binary gender and sexual preference norms. Those norms exist in part because they seem to work for a lot of folx.

And…

Does adhering to gender norms feel more like being stuck in a cage than playing contentedly in spaces you truly love?

Is the playing Out There, and you’re stuck In Here where things are, you know, mostly fine (or maybe really totally not fine)?

Do you feel a longing for a Something More you know exists, somehow, somewhere?

Y’all, there is freedom and relief to be had. I know. There is no lock on that cage door. You can open it. Scary? Sure. Worth it. Oh. My. God. YES! <𝘈𝘯𝘥 𝘨𝘶𝘦𝘴𝘴 𝘸𝘩𝘢𝘵? 𝘠𝘰𝘶 𝘢𝘭𝘴𝘰 𝘨𝘦𝘵 𝘵𝘰 𝘨𝘰 𝘣𝘢𝘤𝘬 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘦 𝘢𝘯𝘺 𝘵𝘪𝘮𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘸𝘢𝘯𝘵. 𝘠𝘰𝘶 𝘤𝘢𝘯 𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘦 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘨𝘰 𝘢𝘴 𝘧𝘳𝘦𝘦𝘭𝘺 𝘢𝘴 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘸𝘪𝘴𝘩!>

When gender and sexuality are fluid and experienced as a spectrum instead of a rigid binary you don’t have to turn into something else. You don’t become a different person. You get to be. Just be. You can at last relax into being the whole and complete humxn you have always been, freed from rules handed to you, rules you never chose for yourself in the first place.

In my work I use an arousal typing system, the Erotic Blueprints™ alongside a set of guided processes, Accelerated Evolution, to help people understand, accept, embrace, and embody their authentic sexual selves. I happen to be particularly interested in the rich universe of queer experience.

The Erotic Blueprints™, of which you can get a tantalizing taste in the Netflix show “Sex, Love, and Goop”, have given thousands of people profound insights into what makes them tick as erotic beings. The Blueprints help explain why folx struggle to connect with each other, provide language for clear, effective communication, and ultimately set people on a lifelong journey of sexual liberation and exploration – all on their terms.

Accelerated Evolution processes ease emotional or mental blocks and reorient unhelpful beliefs quickly, fully, and permanently. Embarking on a journey into sexuality can bring things up: judgments, conditioning, trauma, confusion, regret, frustration… These processes help people through these challenges, things that might otherwise bring everything to a screeching halt.

Curious? Me too. Let’s meet.

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There will be 3 sessions, each an hour long with 30 minute breaks between. The sessions are Mild, Medium, and Hot. The spice level is about the rawness and realness of the content; increasingly frank and open talk about sex and gender, the edginess of stories and invitations to share, and the activities. If talking about sex with strangers and concepts of gender are new to you, Mild is your flavor. If you’re excited to hear descriptions of decidedly unconventional sex and gender shenanigans are your jam, go Hot. If you attend Mild or Medium and feel jizzed for more, you are welcome to stay. The limitations are 1) all who registered for Medium and Hot get priority and 2) maximum occupancy for the room.

If you have questions, ask on this FB event page!

Mild Session: 12:30 – 1:30
Medium Session: 2:00 – 3:00
Hot Session: 3:30 – 4:30

*IMPORTANT* This is a clothing-on event for over-18, responsible, mature, sex-positive people. All activities are consent-based and optional. Expectations will be set at the start of each session. Show up kind with beginner’s mind